Prison, jail, juvy and more – whatever form incarceration takes, it’s not a fun place to be. There’s endless boredom, danger from other inmates, sometimes even unscrupulous guards. But even in the darkest places it seems humanity can find ways to shine through, as these people who have been a part of the prison system discovered when, if only for a brief moment, they experienced kindness, care, or hope on the inside.
1. Storytelling Is Gangster
I was in jail for a while, and there was a book I was reading that the library man gave me. I later realized the last 40 pages had been ripped out.
A tough-looking inmate heard me complaining. That evening he came over and said he’d read the book before and knew how it ended. Over the next two days, he narrated the missing 40 pages from memory.
2. Bittersweet Last Meal
My dad worked as a prison guard. One inmate battled cancer for five years, and both the guards and inmates did everything they could to make his final days easier.
On his last night, he asked for a McDonald’s cheeseburger. Sadly, he passed away before it arrived. The guards still bought cheeseburgers for everyone who had cared for him, and they all sat together quietly eating the meal he never got to enjoy.
3. Friends From the Outside
I spent about a month in prison for a DUI. A nearby family’s cat visited the prison every day. We gave it snacks, and it would wander inside, curl up on the couch in the TV room, and spend time with us.
The guards knew about it and let the cat stay as long as everyone treated it well.
4. Tales From Dubai
While I was briefly imprisoned in Dubai, inmates who had money voluntarily donated to help those who didn’t. The fund provided hygiene supplies, phone access, blankets, clothing, and other essentials so no one had to beg.
They even organized a life-sized chess game in the hallway using 32 inmates as chess pieces. Some games lasted several days.
5. A Friend Takes the Fall
A few weeks before I was due to be released, I nearly got into a fight over a misunderstanding.
My cellmate stepped in, took the blame for something he wasn’t involved in, and diffused the situation. Later he admitted he just wanted to make sure I got home on time.
He passed away not long after his own release. I’ll never forget him.
6. Bunnies Behind Bars
My husband was in prison for two years. He said there were bunnies in the yard that the inmates named. Some were friendly, would come up to people, and even enjoyed being held. Everyone especially loved spring when the baby bunnies were born.
Another memorable moment came when my husband’s case was overturned, but he still wasn’t being released. We couldn’t get an attorney to help, so another inmate filed a habeas corpus petition on his behalf from prison. It got my husband released within a week.
7. Sundays Are for The Walking Dead
My dad was in prison for a few years when I was a kid. When The Walking Dead premiered on Halloween, it wasn’t scheduled TV time, but the guards let everyone watch it as a treat for those missing their families.
The guards ended up liking the show too, so they let the inmates watch it every Sunday after that.
8. Pick on Someone Your Own Size
In a county jail, two guys tried to jump the youngest inmate in the pod after he accidentally insulted their gang.
The kid had just turned 18 and was facing federal charges. The rest of the pod stepped in, defended him, and forced the two attackers out.
9. Giving Back
During my first week at a small federal prison, an inmate introduced me to an organization run through the prison chapel. Their mission was to make sure every new arrival had basic necessities like hygiene items and clean clothes.
They told me I never had to repay them, but if I was ever able to help someone else in the future, I should.
A few weeks later, after receiving some money, I bought replacements for everything they’d given me and donated them back. The inmate who accepted the donation seemed genuinely surprised and touched. It gave me the impression that very few people ever gave back.
10. He Made Dolls for His Unborn Child
I’ve been to jail twice and prison once. One inmate spent his time making papier-mâché dolls for his child.
When I asked when his child would receive them, he told me the baby hadn’t been born yet. He wanted to make sure his child would feel loved, even though he wouldn’t be there for the birth.
He made both pink and blue dolls because he didn’t yet know whether he was having a boy or a girl.
11. Communing Through Coffee and Crafts
I spent a week in a detention center waiting for a bail hearing. Every morning we received a packet of instant coffee, but I didn’t drink mine, so after a few days I offered them to anyone who wanted them.
The pod boss and his second-in-command accepted them. Despite their intimidating reputations, they turned out to be kind people.
The second-in-command made incredible origami. After showing me a fighter jet and a tank he’d folded, he gave me a paper crane to keep.
12. Solidarity for a Prisoner’s Sister
In juvenile prison, one inmate learned that his baby sister had died of cancer. He refused to return to his cell because he wanted to call his mother.
The guards threatened to lock down the entire block, so most of us refused to return to our cells in solidarity with him.
Eventually, one of the counselors stepped in, calmed the situation, and allowed him to make the phone call.
13. Christmas Miracles
On Christmas Day, one of the prison gangs used their commissary to prepare meals for everyone in the pod.
Those who had no commissary received two wraps, while everyone else received one. Despite rival gangs sharing the same maximum-security unit, everyone was fed.
14. They Showed Their Appreciation
My dad worked as a prison guard in Canada for over 30 years. Toward the end of his career, he became the recreational officer for the women’s unit.
One Christmas, I noticed a beautifully hand-drawn card on our fridge signed by more than 30 inmates, thanking him for treating them fairly and with respect.
He later told me that many of those signatures belonged to women serving life sentences for murder.
15. Help a Goose Out
I worked at a correctional facility where inmates weren’t allowed to look out the windows.
One night, several anonymous notes appeared, all reporting that a goose outside the building had a broken foot.
I always thought it was a surprisingly kind gesture.
16. Your Family Is My Family
My ex spent nearly two years in prison and wrote to me often.
His fellow inmates helped by writing poems for him to include in his letters and adding drawings, making sure his messages to me felt even more personal.
